My Lil' Gremlins :)

Kawan..

Kawan yer..bkn Kak Wan.. :)

Hmm..aper nk ckp psl kawan? Sepanjang hidup saye, dah bermacam jenis kawan saye kenal..dari yg baik, ikhlas, pentingkan diri, tikam belakang..semua ader..tapi kiter tak bole judge orang sesuka hati..maybe bagi kiter dia jahat, tapi cuba tengok dari segi lain..mesti ader kebaikkannye. Sebab kiter pun jadi kawan pada orang lain..kiter pun tak sempurna..

Dulu saye ader sorang kawan yang saye anggap kawan baik saye..share problem same2..makan same2..lepak same2..menangis same2..tibe2 dia dingin..? Aper saye buat kat dia? Kalau betul saye ader buat salah, kenape dia tak confront saye? Tapi saye pun tak tanye lah kat dia. Sebab bagi saye, kalau dia anggap saye buat salah, dia patut cakap kat saye. Lagipun, bila jadi macam ni, buat saye sedar, betul ke dia tu kawan baik saye? Sedangkan waktu gembira, boleh same2..So..?

And then, satu lagi sikap kawan yang saye kurang faham, bile depan baik je, tapi belakang kutuk dan mengumpat sesame sendiri. Kenape ek? Saye admit, gossip memang best, tapi gossip pasal kawan sendiri? Tambah2 lagi kalau gossip tu tak betul. Nak lagi hebat, kawan lain pulak datang bagitahu kiter. Hmm..saper kiter nak percaye sekarang? Dan saye admit jugak, dulu saye pun terikut2 macam tu. Tapi sekarang, saye dah mula fikir, elok ke macam tu?? Bagi saye, kalau betul kawan kiter buat salah, bagitau dia sendiri. Kalau dia nak dengar atau tak, itu hak dia. We did our part by telling. Sebab, life masing2..Mungkin bagi kiter dia salah, tapi bagi dia, dia ader reason dia sendiri yang kiter tak tahu. Kiter tak tahu isi hati orang lain..unless kiter cuba bincang and orang tu ready nak bagitahu..

Walaubagaimanapun, sekarang saye dah tak fikir pasal 'dia' lagi. Sebab, patah tumbuh hilang berganti. Sekarang saye happy dengan kawan2 kat tempat keje saye. Setakat sekarang, ape yang saye nampak, kawan2 saye ikhlas..Kalau tak suke, cakap tak suke..kalau happy, same2 happy..harap2 berkekalan lah macam tu..And sekarang saye bersyukur sebab diberi peluang untuk kenal diorang..Yang lepas tu, jadikan tauladan..Dannnnn..what goes around, comes around..(hmm..best jugak topic tu, next blog lah..hihi..)

Anyway, ni cuma pendapat saye. Kalau tak agree, saye tak kisah pun :) Masing2 ader pendapat and cara masing2..memang kiter tak boleh nak puaskan hati semua orang..tapi aper yang kiter boleh buat, try and imagine ourselves in other people's shoes. Kalau dah try tapi kiter tak paham jugak, tulis blog sudaa.. :P daripada collect dosa dengan mengumpat, betul tak? Tapi taknak lah cakap pasal dosa, pahala, ajal dan jodoh..sebab tu semua ketentuan Tuhan..Untung sabut timbul..(ehh..aper kene mengene?? n saper punye quote tu ek? haha.. :P )

So..itu lah alkisahnye dengan kawan..Macam2 hal dan ragam..Bukan senang nak jadi seorang kawan..Kesimpulan bagi saye, kenal diri sendiri dulu, sebelum kiter judge orang lain. And cuba faham orang lain..maybe dengan cara tu kiter boleh jadi kawan yang baik?

"I'm not perfect, and I don't intend to be..but what I wanna try and be is, just a better friend"

P/S: I Love You!

LOVE..four alphabets, easy to pronounce, but with thousands of different meanings..What is LOVE? The dictionary defines love as affection, devotion, passion, tenderness and the list goes on and on.. Some people may fall in love at first sight, some may say love is blind, others may say love hurts, and some people may fall head over heels in love.


To me, love makes my world go round. I can never live without love. Love from my family, love from my true friends and of course, from someone of the opposite sex :) I believe that the success of a person sometimes yes, through persistence, but often through the unconditional love and support of their beloved ones. Love always gives me strength to do something I never thought I could do. To be somebody I never thought I could be.



I am blessed every day of my life, to wake up in the morning knowing that I have love..

*Only the soul that loves is happy*
*Love makes all things beautiful*

p/s: I Love You!~ :)

Common Symptoms of Too Much Stress

An article I read in the office today..(erkk..kat office bole bace article? keje dh buat ok..plus boss xder..haha :P )

We all experience stress in our daily lives from different sources: jobs, relationships, finances. And whether you’re dealing with a daily stressor, chronic stress, or a major life challenge like illness or divorce, stress can take a significant toll on you both physically and emotionally. How do you know when you’re dealing with a level of stress that’s unhealthy for you?

The answer to this question can be tricky for a few reasons:

* Stress affects the body in many different ways. Some of these are obvious, but others may not be as noticeable or easy to detect until they become more severe.

* Different people are affected more or less intensely, and in different ways.

* The effects of stress often look like symptoms of other illnesses (partially due to the fact that stress lowers immunity and makes us vulnerable to many things), sometimes people mistake symptoms of illness for stress and vice versa.

* People who thrive on stress tend to feel it as their natural state, making it more difficult to discern stress symptoms until after much of their stress is alleviated.

* When under high levels of stress, people often find it difficult to stop and notice their body’s responses.

While stress affects everyone in a unique way, there are certain factors that are common. If you are experiencing any of the following, it could be a sign that you’re being affected by stress:

- Headaches: Certain types of headaches can be related to stress. If you’re experiencing more headaches, especially tension headaches, stress could be the culprit.

- More Frequent Colds or Flu: There’s an inverse relationship between stress and immunity, so if you’re under too much stress, you may be getting sick more often.

- Sleep Problems: There are many ways that stress affects sleep. Too much stress can rob you of sleep and make the sleep you get less restorative.

- General Anxiety: Anxiety does serve an important function for survival, but if you’re feeling anxious much of the time, it could be because you have too many stressors in your life, or it may indicate a medical condition like generalized anxiety disorder. If you experience an increase in anxiety, you may want to to talk to your doctor.

- ‘Fuzzy Thinking’: Your body’s stress response pumps your body with hormones that make it possible for you to fight or flee quickly. When triggered in excess, this stress response can actually cause you to think less quickly.

- Feelings of Frustration: If you’re faced with many demands at once, the natural result for many people is increased frustration and irritability. The trick is to find ways to prevent frustration and calm down quickly.

MY WAYS OF CURING STRESS:

1) LAUGH! Ever heard about laughter as the best medicine? Yea, laugh til' you get stomach cramp. it's OK!

2) Do not think about problems before they reaches you, ie. stop thinking about all the 'what ifs' in your life. Unless you already have solutions before it even happen, then quit worrying!

3) Do not let what people say about you affects your life. People around you will never stop talking. IGNORE! You, yourself knows best. Plus, gossiping is just a way to either kill boredom or, they are just envy of you! :P

4) Exercise! To recapture your enthusiasm! It has become my hobby now and I have to admit, it really makes me feel healthy and happy (though I'm actually having flu and fever right now..haha)

5) Be around people who loves you.. :)

6) Quit thinking about sad thoughts..they'll just make you sad..ain't gonna solve your problems! :P

7) Feel beautiful, or at least try to look beautiful!

Well, these are just my personal opinion. But again, as a normal human being, we definitely can't run or hide from problems and feeling stress. It's a normal life cycle. But we can try to minimize it, right? If all else fails, just drown yourself in your tears! That'll also make u feel better :)

And The Journey Continues..

It's 0051hrs now..n I'm still wide awake..Went to play squash right after work just now and now I'm feeling fresh! Exercise, sports..my latest enthusiasm! Exercise gives endorphins and endorphins makes me happy! ;P
But the thing is, I can't sleep!! I've a plane to catch at 0740hrs to Penang and a meeting to attend. A meeting which I don't exactly know what it's all about! Well good luck to me :) And butterflies, please go away from my tummy! I hope I won't get a nervous breakdown or something. Which reminds me of my first interview with MAS. My heart was beating like a jungle drum and it was pretty obvious..I had to cover my chest with my handbag! I was so darn nervous at that time!! Ha Ha..(Arif and Tasha, if you guys are reading this, well, stop laughing!!) But anyway, that was like 8 years ago..I'm much more mature now..Really!! :P And, yes, I succeeded in d interview :) And that brought me to where I am right now. Alhamdulillah..And the journey continues..
And with that uncool story of myself, I end my post for now. Till we meet again..Goodnite peeps!~

My First Endeavor

Tadaa..I welcome myself to the world of BLoG. As what the title is, this is my first endeavor in blogging..or in writing, specifically. I don't really have any interesting things in mind to write about..most probably just my thoughts, my feelings and things that are happening around me. So please bear with me yea? I'll try to make it as fun and interesting as possible. Well, atleast I'm gonna try, okay?

Oh by the way, this is a tribute to Kak Wan, for giving me d idea to create this blog (yerrr..pastu tak letak gambar linda kan?!) to Razee, my walking dictionary (I dun mind all d evil retorts, really..cos I know deep down in ur heart, u like having me around, rite?? haha..) and to Kak Eny, for just being U! :)

And this blog is especially dedicated to my beloved family..for always being there for me..through thick n thin..n supporting me throughout. And to my guardian angel, no matter where u are! *hmm..dh mcm menang award pulak?*

So now, I'm presenting..the "Absolutely Definitely Me". My very first blog which will definitely be filled with nonsense and gobbledygook! :P